Thursday, October 21, 2010

Long Distance Relationship

Well, I am gonna start my first post with a simple introduction about me and my other half, Daren.

A : " I don't think long distance relationship works la...... "
B : " I'm having a long distance relationship for 2 years. It can work!!"
C : " I don't know... As long as you happy then can la......... "
That's what people told me before I started my long distance relationship with Daren.

Daren was studying in New Zealand since secondary school and I was studying in Malaysia all the time. I was so lucky to meet him 2 years ago in Malaysia during Chinese New Year at a friend's house. He gave me a very good first impression and we started to go out a few times after that. After he went back to New Zealand, we still keep contact via webcam chatting, phone calling and emailing and then slowly both of us fell in love with each other. That's how our 2 years long distance relationship started!

Every year Daren came back to Malaysia and we had very good but short 2 months summer holiday together. This year, August I decided to visit him in New Zealand after I quit my job. Yea time past very fast, I have been in New Zealand for almost 3 months!!

Many people disagree with long distance relationship but I myself experienced it and I would say NEVER TRY, NEVER KNOW and the result might surprise you. Remember, once you try, NEVER GIVE UP EASILY!

First year together

 Second year together

 Third year together

If you ask me, how long distance relationship works? Based on my own experience, I would say : trust, appreciate, care, have the strong feeling to bear with each other no matter what and never give up easily!

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